The Standard
As we have all noticed, holding hands among friends is quite natural in China. This embrace is not controlled by gender lines, so whether it is boy/boy, girl/girl, boy/girl, girl/girl/girl, or boy/boy/boy, it is often no more than a symbol of ones friendship. I like to relate it to the friendly ass slap that is seen on American baseball fields. To a foreigner it might seem odd at first but once it is accepted as a natural social custom, one should be able to see the merit of its ability to show companionship and demonstrate the belonging to a community. The best part about holding hands in China, however, is being able to pick up the different variations that aren't as prevalent in the US.
Here is a variation of one of the more standard hand holds
Ya gotta love it - an intertwining of arms and fingers create a zipper affect where everything seems securely bound and it becomes hard to differentiate one person from the other.
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